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| Troubled Teenagers and Dangerous Dating |
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If you suspect your troubled teen of dangerous sexual behavior that may be detrimental to him/her, then intervening would be doing your teen a favor even if he/she may not quite realize it at first. Some troubled teens are actually engaging themselves in numerous sexual flings or sex with strangers that endanger their physical state of health. When observed by mental health professionals, those suffering from impulsive actions tend to seek reaffirmation through unhealthy sexual behaviors. Studies have observed troubled teens dealing with poor self-image turn to sexual acts with practically anyone in order to reaffirm one’s self-concept. Obviously, this is not a healthy state. Not only does this put your teenager at risk of catching a number of sexually transmitted diseases but it is a dangerous mental state to be in. Erase any connection of sexual acts and teen self-acceptance Sexual acts should not hold your teenager’s idea of self-acceptance. He/she should not have to feel that people need to want him/her sexually in order for he/she to feel wanted as a person. Clearly, one can see how these are two completely different things. But as surprising as it may appear to be, in the midst of it all, your teenager him/herself may not see the difference. As he/she is wanted by his/her sexual partners, he/she may feel that this adds to his/her reaffirmation of the self. In no way is this positive reaffirmation, in fact it puts your teenager in more danger. And he/she should be aware of it! This is the only way that he/she can protect him/herself responsibly. Low self-concept and Impulsive sexual behavior Impulsive sexual behavior has been observed to be frequent in those troubled teens particularly dealing with a low self-concept. They tend to seek affirmation of the self through those willing to engage in sexual acts with them. They continue to seek various partners to fill the gaping whole within, but as they may come to realize its depth seems bottomless. There is no way to fill it up. No matter how many people they have sex with, they still feel hollow inside. This is because the true issue behind this dangerous sexual behavior is not being tackled. In turn, the self-destructive behavior does not cease. As a parent, once you are aware of your teenager’s self-destructive sexual behavior, you must take action. As hard as it may be, it is your child’s life on the line. Initial consultation with a counselor is highly recommended. |
