Common traits of teen self-injurers have been observed from studies made. These traits appear to cover the following: - Those with self-image issues
- Those with feelings of self-hatred or even loathing for one’s self
- Those that are over-sensitive with regard to remarks or comments made about themselves, specifically rejection
- Chronic irritation, most of the time directed to the self
- Suppression of strong feelings, such as anger
- Exhibits aggressive behavior and hostility, which they appear to have an inward struggle with
- Exhibits difficulty suppressing one’s impulses
- A “live in the moment” lifestyle attitude
- He/she may not appear to plan for or look toward the future
- Depression, as well as suicidal tendencies
- Exhibits constant feelings of anxiety
- Highly irritable
- Appears to have lost hope in his/her own coping abilities
- A loss of faith in control over one’s life
- Instead of facing issues, he/she avoids them
- May tend to see one’s self as powerless
Anxiety, anger, and the self-injurer
A teenager that engages in self-injury may be experiencing difficulty expressing or coming to terms with his/her emotions. An impulsive nature also appears to accompany this struggle with emotion. Teen self-injurers tend to be aggressive and it has been observed that their disposition during the time of self-injury is usually an extreme form of a primary mood exhibited by the sufferer. The two basic emotions that have been found to exist at the moment of self-injury are feelings of anxiety and anger. These have also been observed as individual traits of the self-injurer. A teen self-injurer’s actions may be decided by his/her mood at that very moment, instead of thinking about consequences and aims in the future.
Simultaneous occurrence of disorders
There are also other factors to note when recognizing a teen suffering from self-injury. Another point to consider is the simultaneous occurrence of other conditions or disorders. A teenager suffering from self-injury may also be suffering from depression or the eating disorder—bulimia. The co-diagnosis of these disorders is prevalent. The impulsive nature and feelings of anger and anxiety that are common to these disorders connect them with the nature of self-harm. Borderline personality disorder is yet another disorder which may be connected to self-harm. Those suffering from self-harm have the following in common with those diagnosed with borderline personality disorder:
They may be under medication while receiving psychotherapy.
- A much higher suicide rate exists, as well as constant rate of attempts at committing suicide.
- A lack of sexual drive.
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