| Troubled teen self-concept |
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The self-concept of a troubled teenager can be very sensitive. Troubled teens can view themselves in negative ways. Self-concept covers not only body-image (which is normally diversely affected by mental disorders such as eating disorders) but one’s perception of his/her own personality or character as well. Ideals and values of a teenager are also taken into consideration when teen self-concept is discussed. A struggle with the self Self-concept must be tackled when helping a troubled teen have a better acceptance of his/her own view of the self. A majority of troubled teens struggle with self-concept. Their negative outlook on the world greatly affects their own perception of the self. Self-concept is actually the basic foundation of your child’s actions. If he/she has a damaged self-concept it is highly likely that your teen may make impulsive choices or participate in actions which will not be beneficial to his/her fruition and growth. The benefits of reaffirmation Studies have shown that constant positive reaffirmation aids in the enhancement of a teen’s self-concept. Whatever personality traits or characteristics which you admire in your child should be given proper recognition. A parent would be surprised by how little good about him/herself a child may actually be aware of. That’s why it never hurts to tell your teenager about how much those around him/her appreciate his/her good values and qualities. You’d be surprised by the reaction of your teen. It is possible that he/she may initially react with disbelief, but as long as you show your genuine confidence in your comments it will shine through. Examining your own self-concept as parent Of course, a parent may ideally choose to put one’s own self-image or self-concept under the lens. By examining your own self-concept you can come to better terms with why your child feels the way he/she does about him/herself. Of course, teens do learn by example and starting off with a primary example of good self-image through one’s parent can only be beneficial to your teen. Keep in mind that self-concept does not only deal with one’s physical traits but one’s mental and emotional qualities are under equal observation as well. As much as a troubled teenager’s self-concept can spiral down into negativity, it can equally be enhanced and be brought up to the level of a positive state of confidence and belief in one’s self as one’s capabilities as well. Not only may positive reaffirmation be considered from those around a troubled teen, but seeking help from psychotherapy or counseling can be beneficial. |
