Caring StepMom
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Too Late? - 2006/06/17 11:22
I'm at a loss in many ways. My stepson is 18, failed his senior year, won't hold a job, has a drinking/drug problem, and is just plain impossible to deal with unless he wants something. As a step-parent, my role is limited, but he seems to be receptive to at least some of what I suggest to him. I'm rambling - my concern is that he may have a mental disorder as his behaviors, actions, and moods run to extremes. He's "wide open" most of the time - has zero impulse control, an obvious lack of conscience, (e.g.-has no problem hurting people, animals), an inability to focus on anything for any length of time, has grandiose ideas with no realistic plan, and is generally very self-centered and extremely inconsiderate and disrespectful. Background - his mother sent him to live with us (his dad and I) shortly after he turned 16 because of these issues. I have actually understated the extent of these issues. I need any input, suggestions, advice. I can't give up on him. I care for him and want to find some way to help him. Anyone, any ideas??
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